Active, Collaborative, Respectful Couples Therapy
Resolve your relationship issues and deepen your connection, in a supportive and safe space.
Dr. Bruce Chalmer
Couples Therapist in South Burlington, VT
Dr. Chalmer is a clinical psychologist who specializes in working with couples. He brings to this work a wide-ranging curiosity and intelligence, an ability to connect with people, and a passion for helping people live happier, healthier lives. He uses his knowledge, skill, and long experience of couples therapy to help his clients achieve their goals.
Dr. Chalmer brings to this work a wide-ranging curiosity and intelligence, an ability to connect with people with warmth and humor, and a deep respect for the dignity of each person. Whatever issues you may bring to therapy, be it infidelity, sexual issues, parenting concerns, or any other kind of relationship problem, Dr. Chalmer will help the two of you get past blame and find healing. Check out Dr. Chalmer’s podcast, videos, and blog to learn more about how he works with you about a wide range of issues, including sex (and how to go from plain old sex to good sex to sacred sex), marriage, faith, cheating and healing from affairs, forgiveness, communication, aging, cross-dressing, porn, and many more topics.
Featured Podcasts
99-cent special for “It’s Not About Communication!”
January 24, 2023
Update: We did it! Well, you did it! The book hit #1 in Couples & Family Therapy! It’s happening! Today, January 24, 2023, for a limited time, you can get the Kindle version of It’s Not About Communication! Why Everything You Know About Couples Therapy is Wrong for the ridiculously low price of 99 cents. Here’s
Sex Across Differences: An Interview with Emerald Aueyong
January 20, 2023
How do couples have sex when one or both are disabled in some way, be it physically, mentally, or emotionally? How do couples who come from different cultural backgrounds manage to talk about their sex lives? What about differences in sexual desire? Our guest in this episode of our “Couples Therapy in Seven Words” podcast
Does Divorce Have to Be Horrible? An Interview with Collaborative Divorce Attorney Nicole Quallen
January 13, 2023
For our 100th episode (yay!), we have an interview with Nicole Quallen, a collaborative divorce attorney in North Carolina. Nicole helps couples navigate their way through the rocky shoals of divorce with a collaborative, rather than adversarial approach. We talk about how that works (and when maybe it doesn’t), and how collaborative divorce can foster
A January Look Backwards and Forwards
January 2, 2023
We’re coming up on three years of doing this podcast! We take a January look backwards and forwards. While we’re at it, we review the seven-word formula that gives the podcast its name. As we say in the episode, sign up for Dr. Chalmer’s Newsletter! When you sign up, you’ll get access to the first
