When your relationship feels stuck, this course shows you what to do.
Understand what’s happening—and take concrete actions to move things forward.
Something isn’t working in your relationship.
Maybe it’s been building for a long time:
- You don’t feel as connected as you used to
- You’re arguing in ways that go nowhere
- Or something serious — infidelity, betrayal, another sort of crisis — has happened
And you’re left asking:
What do we do now?
Most couples try to answer that too quickly.
They argue, avoid, or repeat the same conversations.
That’s action—but it’s the kind that keeps you stuck.
✓ Self-paced video course
✓ 26 chapters
✓ $97
✓ 14-day satisfaction guarantee
If you’re ready to begin, you can start the course now.
Or, if you’d like to learn more about what you’ll be learning, just keep reading.
Watch the free introductory video (six minutes)
In this introduction, Dr. Bruce Chalmer how the course works, and how it will help you.
This course gives you a way to move forward.
Not by telling you what decision to make—
but by showing you how to take actions that actually move your situation forward.
So you’re not just thinking about your relationship.
You’re doing something about it.
What you'll get from this course
By working through this course, you will:
- Get clear about what’s actually happening
- Understand the patterns that keep you stuck
- Take concrete actions that move things forward
- Know how to move ahead—without guessing or going in circles
How the course works
This course is a process:
1. Take stock — understand your situation clearly
2. Learn the skills — see what’s been keeping you stuck
3. Be the change — create and carry out specific next steps
By the end, you won’t just understand your situation—
you’ll already be changing it.
DR. BRUCE CHALMER
For more than thirty years I’ve worked with couples, many of whom still care deeply about each other, but are feeling that the life has gone out of the relationship.
I’ve learned that helping them see what’s actually happening—in ways they probably haven’t considered—is the first step towards healing.
- Psychologist specializing in couples therapy for 30+ years
- Author of four books on relationships
- Thousands of hours working with couples in crisis
Frequently Asked Questions
Is this course for individuals or couples?
Either way is fine. You can do this course on your own, or you can invite your partner to participate. Since you’ll have access to all course chapters and materials at any time, you can each use the same login and access the materials independently.
What if my partner won't participate?
You’ll benefit from the course whether or not your partner chooses to participate.
How long does the course take?
You do the course at your own pace. There are 26 chapters, but some of them are on specific topics that might not be relevant to you.
You could complete it in a few days, or you might prefer to pause between sections and do the course over a longer time. You can always revisit parts of the course as needed.
What if I've already tried therapy?
Many people who do this course have already tried therapy, or are currently in therapy when they do the course. The course will help you focus and clarify what’s going on and why you’ve been stuck. That can make therapy more effective.
Is my enrollment completely private and confidential?
Yes. Your encrypted enrollment, account creation, and checkout process are handled securely, privately, and discreetly through the Thinkific course platform. Course enrollments are treated as sensitive clinical information, protected by legal and ethical constraints.
What if the course isn’t the right fit for me? Do you offer a refund?
Yes. I want you to feel completely secure in your decision to begin healing. If you dive into the modules and realize the frameworks aren’t a good fit for your specific situation, simply email me within 14 days of your purchase. I will issue a full, 100% refund, no questions asked.
Course Refund & Satisfaction Policy
I want you to feel confident in your decision to enroll.
If, within the first 14 days, you don’t believe the course is helping you, simply let me know (email bruce@brucechalmer.com) and I’ll refund your purchase.
