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Dr. Bruce Chalmer
Help for Couples

Dr. Chalmer specializes in working with couples. He brings to this work a wide-ranging curiosity and intelligence, an ability to connect with people, and a passion for helping people live happier, healthier lives. 

Learn more about couples sessions with Dr. Chalmer here.

Whatever issues you may bring to therapy, be it infidelity, sexual issues, parenting concerns, or any other kind of relationship problem, Dr. Chalmer will help the two of you get past blame and find healing.

Check out Dr. Chalmer’s books, podcast, videos, and blog to learn more about how he works with you about a wide range of issues, including sex (and how to go from plain old sex to good sex to sacred sex), marriage, faith, cheating and healing from affairs, forgiveness, communication, aging, cross-dressing, porn, and many more topics.

Featured Podcasts

Rabbi Shlomo Slatkin

The Marriage Restoration Project: An Interview with Rabbi Shlomo Slatkin

https://youtu.be/vKmZO_pGIzU Can a couple who have fallen out of love regain their passion for each other? What is Imago Relationship Therapy, and how can it help? Our guest in this episode, Rabbi Shlomo Slatkin, is the founder of the Marriage Restoration Project, which offers intensive retreats, group workshops, and online courses. Rabbi Slatkin’s website is

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I Found Out At His Funeral That My Father Had Been Cheating!

https://youtu.be/VNyebHUNEhQ What would you do if you found out at your father’s funeral that he had been betraying your mother by having affairs? Your father, whom you had loved, honored, and trusted? Recently I’ve talked with several people in similar situations. Judy and I talk about how they might work on healing from that kind

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Craig Mattson

Digital Overwhelm: An Interview with Craig Mattson

https://youtu.be/BZ37dEJSkWA Do you ever find yourself drowning in digital stimulation and demand? How does digital overwhelm in work life relate to life as a couple? Our guest in this episode is Craig Mattson, a professor of communication who has studied the disconnection and intensity many workers feel in their work lives. And as a person

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Leah Spasova

Intimacy, Sex, and Relationships: An Interview with Leah Spasova

https://youtu.be/nS06eRe0vgM Our guest in this episode, Leah Spasova, is the CEO of LifeSexperts, which offers coaching and training to individuals, couples, and organizations about healthy relationships. We talk with her about her multi-layered approach to helping couples with sex and relationship issues. Leah’s website is https://www.lifesexperts.com/. Do you have ideas for topics or guests for

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