Active, Respectful, Collaborative Help for Couples
Resolve your relationship issues and deepen your connection in a supportive and safe space.
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Dr. Bruce Chalmer
Help for Couples
Dr. Chalmer specializes in working with couples. He brings to this work a wide-ranging curiosity and intelligence, an ability to connect with people, and a passion for helping people live happier, healthier lives.
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Whatever issues you may bring to therapy, be it infidelity, sexual issues, parenting concerns, or any other kind of relationship problem, Dr. Chalmer will help the two of you get past blame and find healing.
Check out Dr. Chalmer’s books, podcast, videos, and blog to learn more about how he works with you about a wide range of issues, including sex (and how to go from plain old sex to good sex to sacred sex), marriage, faith, cheating and healing from affairs, forgiveness, communication, aging, cross-dressing, porn, and many more topics.
Featured Podcasts
What the Heck is Self-Love, Anyway? An Interview with Jonathon Aslay
https://youtu.be/gTCxfh1Kxq0 Our guest in this episode, Jonathon Aslay, is a relationship coach who works especially with people (most often women, but some men) in mid-life. We talk about the particular issues that arise for people at that stage of life, and how Jonathon helps them navigate them. It’s a lively discussion—we had fun! Jonathon’s website
My Husband Complains About My Cleaning! What’s Going On?
https://youtu.be/XxBdvPduTScIs your husband (or boyfriend or fiancé) driving you nuts with his complaints about your cleaning? Hundreds of people have found their way to a blog post on my website by searching for some variation on that theme. And they’re obviously not looking for cleaning tips. This is about relationship. Well, I wrote a short
Reframing Pressure as a Choice: An Interview with Brian Hite
https://youtu.be/_K5dL-JUkLI Our guest in this episode, Brian Hite, has quite the blend of experiences to offer: he’s a Hollywood stuntman with over 100 credits, a Ph.D. in Organizational Psychology, and a sports performance coach. In his speeches and trainings, Brian challenges some conventional assumptions about pressure, motivation, and performance. And his energy is contagious—check out
Sex Therapy for Older Adults: An Interview with Dr. Jenn Kennedy
https://youtu.be/PmpZOH5kkkU What are some of the issues that come up for older adults in sex therapy? Our guest in this episode, Dr. Jenn Kennedy, tells us how she helps older couples navigate the changes and challenges of maintaining and improving their sexual connection. Dr. Kennedy’s website is https://pleasureproject.us/. Do you have ideas for topics or