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My Wife Found Out I Cross-Dress. Help!

Cross-dressing is not all that unusual among heterosexual men, but their wives are usually not very happy about it. We handle a question from a listener who hid his cross-dressing secret from his wife for decades, only to be discovered. Now what? Here’s the link to the Seven Days article profiling us.

When is it Okay to Move On and Start Dating?

When is it okay to move on after losing a relationship, either to death or divorce, and when is it too soon? What about the dreaded “one-year rule?” And what about the kids? Should they have a veto? In this episode of our podcast, we talk about these issues, and handle a listener question from a […]

How Can We Find the Time to Connect?

Can a couple survive if they can only find ten minutes a week for an uninterrupted conversation? In this episode of our “Couples Therapy in Seven Words” podcast, we discuss an article from Psychology Today called “The 4-Hour Relationship,” and find we don’t completely agree on the premise! The link to the article we talk […]

Can I Live to 100? Do I Want To? An Interview with Dr. Joe Casciani

What do you think about the possibility of living to 100? However old you get to be, how can you live a life worth living, a life of meaning and fulfillment? In this podcast episode, we interview psychologist Dr. Joe Casciani, whose Living to 100 Club offers help with these issues, and we tackle a […]

Communication, Sex, Intimacy, Faith–We Cover It All!

In this podcast episode, we look back over our podcast year, and look ahead to 2022. Communication (more specifically, “It’s Not About Communication!”) continues to be our most popular topic, followed by sex. (Kind of makes sense, doesn’t it!) Along the way, Bruce lets slip what he’s working on for his next book. Tell us […]

How to Have a Great Sex Life: An Interview with Women’s Intimacy and Sex Coach Debbie Elzea

Want to change your sex life from meh to magnificent? In this episode of our “Couples Therapy in Seven Words podcast, we talk to women’s intimacy and sex coach Debbie Elzea. She tells us about seven things that women need for a great sex life, and answers a listener question from a woman who’s too […]

The December Dilemma

How do you handle Christmas if you’re not Christian? In this episode of our “Couples Therapy in Seven Words” podcast, Judy shares her experience as a synagogue educator working with interfaith families who want to strengthen their child’s Jewish identity, and Bruce tells how his feelings about this have evolved over the years. We handle […]

Faith Heals People. Ideology Kills People.

How does faith heal people? And what’s the difference between faith and ideology? And where does religion fit in? And what does all of this have to do with couples therapy, anyway? In this episode of the Couples Therapy in Seven Words podcast, we handle a listener question that focuses on all of these ideas. […]