Self-paced Video Courses

Wondering how to get started on your healing journey? Looking for a way to get unstuck?

Of course, you can set up couples sessions with me.

But what if your partner doesn’t want to do couples sessions? Or what if you want to get started right now, without waiting for an appointment?

I’ve created four self-paced video courses that could be just what you need.

Each course has a free introductory video you can start with, so you can decide if the course is right for you before you enroll. You might find the free video is helpful by itself, even if you don’t enroll in the full course.

Looking to reignite the spark in your relationship? Start here.

Dealing with betrayal? Start here.

Not sure whether to keep working on it, or call it quits? Start here.

Want to take stock of your relationship, and work on it? Start here.

If you’d like to have access to all the courses, you can get a bundle that includes all four courses at this link.

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Self-paced video course: Reigniting the Spark

Looking to reignite the spark in your relationship?

If you’ve lost the deep connection you once had—that passionate charge between you—you’re not alone.

Many couples care deeply about each other and still find themselves feeling distant, disconnected, or stuck.

If that’s you, check out my course called Reigniting the Spark: Stability, Intimacy, and Healing.

The course is based on more than thirty years of working with couples, and on ideas I’ve developed in my books, workshops, and therapy practice.

To introduce those ideas, I’ve created a free video called:

Roommates or Partners? Reversing the Death Spiral for Passion

Self-paced video course: Betrayal and Forgiveness

Are you dealing with betrayal in your relationship?

If you’re dealing with betrayal—perhaps your partner has cheated on you, or deceived you, or betrayed you in some other way, or perhaps you’re the one who betrayed your partner—then this course, Betrayal and Forgiveness: How to Navigate the Turmoil and Learn to Trust Againis designed for you.

The course will help you get past the panic, anger, and fear, so you can consider how to move on, whether you decide to stay together or not.

I’ve created a free video as an introduction to the course. 

Self-paced video course: Discernment

Not sure whether to keep working on your relationship or call it quits?

If you’re struggling with that question, you’re probably asking:

  • Can this relationship really get better?
  • Am I giving up too soon?
  • How long should I keep trying?
  • How do I know if the problems are workable?
  • What if I make the wrong decision?

Maybe one of you is”leaning in”—wanting to work on the relationship—and the other is “leaning out.”

To help you, I’ve created a course called Discernment: Keep Working On It, or Call It Quits?

To see if that course could help you, watch the free video called:

Should I Stay or Go? A Framework for Making the Right Decision

Watch the free video on my course site, or click here to learn more.

Self-paced video course: The Passion Paradox

Want to take stock of your relationship, and work on it?

The Passion Paradox introduces the framework I use in my work with couples. It’s designed to help you understand the tension between stability and intimacy—and why many couples feel stuck trying to choose between them.

Many people find that doing this course helps them calm down and see their situation with a new perspective. If you then go on to start couples sessions, you’ll already have built a solid foundation. 

To introduce the course, I’ve created a free video called:

Understanding the Passion Paradox

Watch the free video on my course site, or click here to learn more.